Monthly Archives: January 2011

I Am Not Size 0

The other day I was looking for some journal articles for my research work, and came across to a very interesting paper about female triathletes by Cronan and Scott - “Triathlon and Women’s Narratives of Bodies and Sport”. As a triathlete I couldn’t put this away but was sucking all the information in while getting my hair done.

Before writing about my thoughts, a question to all of you: why do you work out?

This article lists women’s companionship as one of the work out motivators, as well as mentions that women may not be as competitive as men. Against my belief, this study also suggests that weight loss may not be the primary reason for spending countless hours at the gym, on the bike, or sweating in the pool. Yes, you can get very, very sweaty while swimming!

While I personally disagree with some findings in this study, others I can sign without hesitation.

Competition. I believe men and women can be equally competitive, and sometimes I feel I am ready and willing to push myself a lot harder than my male counterparts. When I am at the start line for a race, I automatically kick in the race gear. I don’t see or hear anything but just focus on the race ahead. All I care about is the performance and doing everything I can, and still some more. At the start line I am in my own world, in my bubble.

Size 0. The magic 0. Zero. Catwalks scream this, and set the expectations how we all should be size 0, skinny with blonde hair and blue eyes. More perfect than a barbie. More than often I have seen weight loss minded personal training clients who are setting these goals. Sorry, then I am not your trainer. No, I don’t want you to obese but within normal weight. I want you be healthy and in shape. I want you to train hard. HARD. Period. But I don’t want you to be skin and bones, without muscles.
So here we go – I have a confession to make. Despite all the training I do, I am nowhere near 0, nor will ever be. Instead, I have too wide shoulders, giant thighs, and leg muscles that sometimes embarrass me. Do I care? No, not at all. I am happy with myself when I can run 2 miles under 13 minutes, dead lift twice my weight, and I have more energy than Duracell Bunny. I am healthy, fit and strong. I get compliments from my doc about my blood pressure, blood tests and heart rate.
The comment in this particular journal article made me smile. In general women who entered the triathlon training program wanted to be stronger and faster, and even the ones with some weight loss goals eventually enjoyed being in shape, and didn’t care about pounds and inches. But they were feeling well.

So I am curious to know why you work out? What motivates you? What do you want to get out of your work outs?

And lastly, here is a picture of my new hair. I absolutely love my hair stylist – she makes miracles every time.

New Hair for 2011

Get Up And Try Again

“A little more persistence, a little more effort, and what seemed hopeless failure may turn to glorious success.” –Elbert Hubbard

Never give up but keep trying. Fall six times, and get up seven. Snowboarding was a struggle yesterday, almost to the tears. I felt like I was having two left legs, and didn’t know what to do, how to steer the board. So after Jason’s encouragement I decided to have another private lesson this afternoon. And voilá! Half an hour later I was sliding the hill all by myself, instructor just following by my side and I was able to turn both ways, and more importantly stop without falling!

The funniest part was somewhere in the middle of my lesson when I really started to relax and enjoy the dance with my snowboard. There were two guys on the slope, one teaching snowboarding to another. The newbie guy had some difficulties to steer his board and maintain his balance. His buddy told him to “look at that girl, bend you knees and keep your weight equally on your feet”. And he was referring to me! Oh wow! That gave good laughs to me and my instructor.

It was a great outdoors day! Now I am finally finding the joy and enjoyment of snowboarding!

My Snowboard - This is what the baby looks like!

What A Day.

Do you ever have days when things just don’t work out? And no matter how positive you try to be, things just don’t work out. Usually I find out my way through everything but not today. It definitely was not my day.

We went skiing and snowboarding again, and for some reason I had a bad feeling about this – being on the snowboard again. Maybe it was some kind of a flashback from my snowboarding experiences a few years ago when I was rolling down the hill without any way to control the board. So we got to the skiing place, and I sent Jason off to the slopes. I wanted him to be able to have fun and ski, not to wait for me trying to figure out snowboarding. And there I was, completely clueless how to deal with the board. I ended up to playing with the board, practicing my balance and controlling the board but no real snowboarding today. What a struggle! And how frustrating! I really hope it gets better tomorrow – I booked another private lesson…

I was pretty bummed about not figuring out this snow sport yet. Perfectionism and patience do not make the greatest friends. But thanks to Jason’s encouragement, I will keep my chin up and try again, again and again. As many times as needed to figure this out. Although I think I kinda understand a bit better how intimidated my training clients may sometimes feel when I don’t let them fail but put them to do reps after reps and keep correcting their posture, adding weights and whatnot.

However, the day got a lot better towards the evening. We did some experiments in the kitchen again and cooked very delicious filet mignon au poivre with the best ever mashed cauliflower. I have to admit, I had my doubts about mashed cauliflower and was prepared with Plan B in case it had turned out to be a disaster. But no Plan B’s needed – it was the most delicious thing ever! We also made fresh whole wheat bread, and the dinner was made perfect with 2006 Duckhorn Merlot. Wonderful wine with the filet.

Overall, it was a good day even with some snowboarding challenges. Tomorrow is a new day, and new opportunity.

“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow’”.  -Mary Anne Radmacher

MilSpouse Friday Fill-in #28

Thanks to Wife of A Sailor, the MilSpouse Friday Fill-In is here again! The last one for January – the first month of 2011 is almost over. Hopefully you are doing well with your New Year’s Resolutions and haven’t given up yet!

1. If you were a famous movie star, what types of movies would you star in? This one is easy, super easy! Action it would be – without a question. And instead of being a super star, I might enjoy the stunt role.

2. What is a vacation you would like to take if money were no object? Uh-oh, what a question for a world traveler! If I didn’t need to think about money and time, I would be doing a giant trip around the world. If I had to choose a single destination, right now it probably would be New Zealand. But I would love to go to Antarctica, Chile, Nepal, Tahiti ….. And yes, these all are on my travel list already.

3. Did you have pets growing up? Yeah, I did. I am a country girl by heart, and we (my family as well as grandparents) always had cats, dogs, sheep, cows, rabbits ….

4. What do you do for exercise? I am a real exercise junkie, and get grumpy without workouts. I love Triathlon stuff so running, biking, ….. and swimming. Trying to get back to the regular swim drills again, it is my weakest area and since I love running and biking dearly, it is way too easy to skip the pool. I have also fell deeply in love with Crossfit. It keeps me sane, and more than often has made my day. I work out at the gym too, and then enjoy all other kinds of sports such as skiing, now getting into snowboarding, hiking, mountain climbing….

5. What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received as a MilSpouse? Simply ‘be patient’ and keep your chin up.

It’s Blizzard!

A wonderful Army Wife Ann Marie @Household6Diva in Germany is hosting Virtual Meet n Greet “Blizzard BlogHop 2011. So grab a cup of coffee, sit back and enjoy the ride around the world. I am sure you will meet some awesome people in the Blogosphere!

My name is Nina, and you are visiting my blog “Adventures of A Lifetime”. My better half Jason is an Army Officer, and for now we are living our adventurous life in The Last Frontier – Alaska.
I work full-time in the technical field as well as I am a professional photographer, Psychology student and Health Nut. A few years ago I fell in love with triathlons, followed by Crossfit …. and more than anything we enjoy all kinds of outdoors activities from mountaineering to scuba diving. Jason and I are also avid travelers, wine lovers and amateur chefs.
Our kids are furry ones – Mr Sandy, an overweight, high maintenance cat, and Mr Tassu is our wonderful, little beagle who loves Jason more than anything (including food) in the world.

This blog is about our adventures, daily life, ramblings about the workouts, sore muscles, textbooks, refreshing thoughts ….. stay tuned! I look forward to hearing from you, so feel free to leave a note below!

PS. If you are on Twitter, please tag the Blizzard BlogHop tweets with #BlizzardBloghop hashtag. You can find me on Twitter here.